Boy, today has been a long day and I have not felt well all
day. I am trying to work up to a
full day of activity, but the last few days have just caught up to me. I fell asleep during the football games and
am getting ready to go to bed shortly.
It is not going to be a typical all-nighter for me today. I have had stomach cramps all day, and eating
and drinking have not helped. I am
hoping that it is just gas. I really
think that I have overdone it a bit physically, but there are just too many
things to get accomplished and I can’t relax when I am home and know that they
need to be done. Yes, I know that they
will be there tomorrow, but that’s the kind of thinking that keeps them on the
to-do list. No one will be here to do
them for me, so I need to bite the bullet and get them finished. I hate how tired I feel all of the time. I don’t have time to be tired. Thank goodness I go to the doctor’s tomorrow
- I just have too many questions that I need to have answered.
Tomorrow is
another long day. I have to get up in
the morning and prime the porch so that the wood will not get ruined if it
rains. The porch is coming along! My
hubby and father-in-law worked long and hard today to get most of the
framing done -- until they ran out of wood. It is going to be awesome! Glenn found an online company that can make
the screens for the top portion of the porch for a little over $200, which is
not bad and will save so much time and headache. It is
finally starting to come together. Someday soon I will be able to enjoy the
evening on my porch. :-)
I am coming
to terms with the fact that relaxation is not going to occur for the rest of my
leave, too. I am a bit bummed about that
because I had visions of reading and cross-stitching, but those are slowly
fading and reality is taking over. I
just have too many things to accomplish for school so that I can at least have
half of a chance at being able to keep up when I go back, stuff to get ready for
speech and debate season, the two online classes to develop that are my
internship for my PhD program, and another quarter of PhD classes that will be
starting in two weeks. Needless to say,
maybe I will get one book read, but with all of that and keeping up with the
house, well, there is no relaxation in my future. It is really starting to bum me out. I don’t know why it is so hard for me to just
accept that I will never be able to just sit around and do what I want for a
day, but sometimes I get so angry. I know that some of the work is because of
projects that I undertake, but I am just so tired and burned out. I didn’t realize how much so until now. As much as I love my job, I have caught
myself wishing for a job where I didn’t have to bring anything home and when I
came home, I came home. Then I could
focus on singing and acting and reading and writing and . . . well, all of the things that I never
have time to do because I have to do stuff for work. I feel so selfish thinking that way; who do I
think I am thinking that I deserve that kind of life? I have to work hard and suck it up like
everyone else. Oh well, no sense in
wishing. . . I just have to work really hard to get over it and quit whining. As Scarlett said, “Tomorrow is another day!”
So, until tomorrow. . .
Don't be so hard on yourself. Everyone needs to take some time for themselves in order to rejuvenate. If you need help with projects all you have to do is ask. We will be there. Just take a deep breath and let it out. There really is a tomorrow for that to do list. Good luck at the doctor today.
ReplyDeleteThanks. :-) I try, but sometimes it just all catches up to me. Knowing that I have such a strong support net makes it so much easier.
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